Hey there, I’m Mell Balment, a mindset mentor, intuitive healer, and speaker on 'Perspective Shifts' & 'Empathic Elevation'.
I help EmpathPreneurs to get clarity and confidence to embody their empathic gifts in their life and business so they can leave their legacy on the world!
From a very young age, I never felt like I fitted in. Due to my parents financial hardships, I was severely bullied for not having the right labels, for being a sporty tom-girl, and having zero interest in being a cool-chick.
I felt like a lone-wolf.
At the age of 12 it seemed the only option was to attempt suicide! Looking back it obviously wasn't my destiny.
I desperately wanted to look like my celebrity idols and would escape into a fantasy world to cope with the attention from my sexually abusive step-father.
I was being emotionally blackmailed, so didn't think I could share with my already suffering mum. I felt completely alone.
By the time I was 15 I had found the strength to escape, which in turn made me grow up very quickly.
Into my twenties, I let men define my worth, by 'giving my body away,' I deceived myself into believing that the attention I received meant I was desired, and I was for all the wrong reasons.
Life was full of other people's agendas and expectations.
This was when I came across books such as The Secret, The Celestine Prophecy, and gurus like Tony Robbins.
The inspiration to understand the universe and spirituality was strong, and I learned to trust it was all conspiring for me.
I discovered there were entities, other than humans, such as angels, spirits, and guides supporting me through my struggles.
From 2002 and with the support of my new husband (Regan 1st) I started working with energy healers. Joyfully, session by session, month by month my vibration increased and I was start to feel comfortable that my life would work out and there was a bigger reason for my life's challenges.
Throughout my thirties, backed by my ambitions and resilience, I was fearless when working with powerful leaders and their ego. All the while there was a feeling of deep dissatisfaction forming in my gut.
The promotions were frequent, my integrity and commitment was impeccable, but I never felt appreciated, even though my bosses always got their rewards… from MY ass-busting, high-achieving, work ethic! I never received my bonuses!
After the final-straw of a manipulative, constructive-dismissal from my high-paying, soul-dulling, stiletto-wearing career in 2014, I doubled down on my spiritual awakening and healing.
I am very thankful to recognise that...
All humans are on earth to uplevel their blueprint.
Seeing the world with a clear, open perspective & intuitively respond to the right ways to uniquely move forward. This leads you to your own holistic expansion from the inside, out.
As I continued with my own expansion I came across many healing techniques and in 2017 incorporated and adapted them into my own 'Cognitive Reframe Process'.
The more I acknowledged my spiritual gifts, the more transformative the sessions became for my clients.
Then the more I accepted those transformations, the more spiritual depth and skill I discovered.
I was able to embody my calling as:
A powerful intuitive.
A skillful coach AND mentor with the ability to know the right questions to ask for facilitation of powerful, deep impact.
A light-worker prepared to carve a path to make it easier for others like me.
When I adopted these self-beliefs, I realised I HAD the capability to guide those a few steps behind me; who were trying to break out of corporate and accept their empathic gifts.
What I know makes me different from other healers is my insight that Ego is not a tormentor. She was a wounded ally that needed my love. One day I decided to approach my connection to her with acceptance and compassion.
This helped her find peace and she has since proven to be a very powerful addition to my spiritual team!
Rather than casting her out - as I was taught by other healers, and was the opposite of what I intuitively believed - bringing her onboard, created all of my breakthroughs.
Instead of making ego wrong for her protective blocks and setting up limiting beliefs, I reprogrammed her perspectives of the world about..
Being seen and judged
Being worthy and wealthy
Being capable (and committed to) achieving my magnificent ambitions
To support other light-workers align with their ambition and transformation, I've created The Alchemy Accelerator system that allows Ego to be part of the team that accelerates your freedom from your MindwebTM.
You might think that you’re alone in the world as a Secret EmpathPreneur but you’re not.
There are lots of us here cheering you on, I promise!
Not that long ago, I too was struggling to understand my place in the world and how I could create something others wanted from my gifts. I hid and stayed quiet about being a light-worker.
Fast forward to 2019 because I'd accepted my place in the universe, going through chemo wasn't scary. In fact I was able to further identify and reframe my past-lives when I'd been persecuted for eon's by the church (which explained why I had been hiding before).
Now I've stopped trying to figure out what to do next, instead, I'm following the universal calling and opportunities as they arise.
The abundance, fulfillment, and success that has arisen since I've followed this truth, has blown me away!
With the archetypes of Queen and Alchemist, combined with innate strengths as a strategist and futurist, I’ve discovered it’s only when you address the MindwebTM of your subconscious that the real magic happens... in your human experience.
Many of us like to apply logic to our humanness. This is why I combine strategic mentoring with quantum energy healing to constantly keep us on track both humanly and spiritually.
Uniquely I'm able to relate to and help my clients change their identity about themselves and re-write past beliefs, no matter their history.
To date I have completed over 650 MindwebTM sessions.
When I combine this tool with my empathic intuition, and my personal life experiences of child abuse, domestic violence, and cancer, you know you're going to get a super-powerful transformation yourself.
You don't learn how to swim or ride a bike without applying the knowledge to your body.
Likewise learning how to trust your intuition and higher-self instincts isn't from a book or course.
I share the knowledge and support you to apply, practice, adapt and fine tune the principles. Self-mastery has to be learned and applied over time.
Deep Fulfilment Will Change Your Life!
We all have ‘stuff’ to work through, some from our past and some based on our future desires.
For me, the world is filled with potential and magic.
If humans had the ability to see beyond their conscious reality, we’d be able to catch glimpses of the loving energy all around us.
I believe there are other dimensions that immeasurably surpass each and every one of our wildest imaginings.
So I choose to tap into them and allow them to guide my subconscious callings.
This is how I've seen my own reality expand crazy fast!
I love latin dancing (especially bachata).
Being a double Burmese owner (means I'm the human slave to not just 1 but 2 high-maintenance fur-babies).
I sleep in a separate bed from my fiancé as he’s a heavy sleeper and I’m not…
Working late is also my jam, so we are entirely incompatible sleeping buddies!
Speaking of him, weirdly my previous husband was also called Regan as well!
Standing my ground and speaking up for what’s right, is a responsibility I take seriously (yes I’ve had to end friendships, when views and values haven’t been calibrated).
Life has thrown the trifecta of challenges for me to find grace from sexual Abuse, Rape, and Cancer! (My sister in law once said “you’re unstoppable” but I've had to practice conscious alignment to embody that statement.),
And perhaps the craziest thing about me is that I’ve got a fear of deep water - but have the (freaking scary right now) goal, to dive in one of the worlds deepest divepools! (Thankfully Covid has paused my need to work on my fears of this ambition!)
NO CRITTER IS SAFE IN OUR HOUSE WITH
MISS SAFKA WATCHING OUT FOR US!